John 4: The Woman Who Met Mr. Right

I hope you liked my devotional commentary on John 3. I know I did. I wasn’t expecting it to go the evangelistic route, but it did, and I liked it. I know for sure this John 4 commentary will go that route. When I was in 8th grade, the 8th grade Bible curriculum at my middle school was the Gospel of John. I remember that when the class got to John, the teacher paused to do a whole unit of evangelism and witnessing. I would like to do the same because I clearly see evangelism in John 4, too. While John 3 was evangelistic because the chapter preached a Gospel message of salvation; John 4 will be evangelistic because it will disciple believers on how to evangelize to non-believers (although if a non-believer paid close attention to what Jesus is saying in John 4, I believe a non-believer could come to faith). In John 4, the reader learns how to evangelize by watching Jesus do it Himself. The person Jesus will evangelize to is not like Nicodemus in chapter 3. In fact, you’ll find out she is almost the quite opposite.

Before John dives into the “meat” of the story, even before John describes the setting of the story, John sets the scene for the setting. The first 3 verses in John 4 actually clarify something all the way back in John 1. John 4:1-3 clarifies why Jews in Jerusalem were sending priests and Levites to observe John the Baptist. They weren’t curious; they were keeping on eye on him. They were making sure John the Baptist didn’t start a revolution, either a religious one or a political one. Why? Because John the Baptist had earned quite the following. If so many people were following John the Baptist and becoming his disciple, he must be up to something. By the time John 4 rolls around, people are following John the Baptist less and following Jesus more. The only thing John the Baptist’s disciples are listening to is John the Baptist saying, “Go follow Jesus.” With less people around John the Baptist, the Jews from Jerusalem saw John the Baptist as a “fad” or a “phase,” but no longer a threat (the only one who saw John the Baptist as a threat was Herod, but that’s for later). But now Jesus has the large following, so now Jesus is seen as the possible threat. From now on, the Jews in Jerusalem are keeping a closer eye on Jesus. During John 4, Jesus does not feel comfortable or safe in Judea because of the Jews in Jerusalem, so He decides it is best to return to Galilee.

Onto the setting of the book. The land between the Mediterranean Sea and the Jordan River, once known as Israel, has now been divided into 3 regions by the Roman Empire. Galilee is in the north, between the Mediterranean Sea and the Sea of Galilee. Judea is in south, between the Mediterranean Sea and the Dead Sea. Between the Mediterranean Sea and the Jordan River, between Galilee and Judea, right smack dab in the middle, is a region of land called Samaria. Its inhabitants are the Samaritans. The Jews and the Samaritans did not get along. They hated each other with racial prejudice.

Quick history lesson. To understand the racial hostility between Jews and Samaritans, we have to go back to the time of Divided Kingdom of Israel and Judah. God warned both Israel and Judah that if they did not follow the Law, they would be conquered and they would be exiled. Of course neither Israel nor Judah listened and instead both broke the law. God followed through with his warning. In 722 BC, Israel would be conquered and exiled by the Assyrians, and in 586 BC, Judah would be conquered and exiled by the Babylonians. The Assyrians and the Babylonians had different views on how to deal with conquered people. The Babylonians would take the upper class citizens of the conquered back to their main homeland and capital, leaving only the lower class conquered people back in their homeland (there was no middle class at this time period). The Assyrians, on the other hand, did the opposite. Instead of dragging people back to your homeland, you implant your people in the new land, and have them intermingle with the natives, keeping the conquerors at a higher status than the conquered. And so that’s what happened. The upper class of Judah was exiled to Babylon, while the lower class of Judah was left to fend for themselves with whatever was left over. The Assyrians moved into their new conquered land of Israel and settled there, intermingling with the people. Now the Jews, the people from Judah (the term “Jew” does technically come from “citizen of Judah”), realized that their exile was due to the sin, so they finally sincerely repented. All the years in exile, the Jews of Judah lived a life following the Law. The conquered Israelites didn’t exactly get the picture still. They kept up with their old sinful habits. As the Assyrians intermingled with the Israelites, the Israelites intermingled with the Assyrians. The Israelites took on the ethnical, cultural, political and spiritual identity of Assyrians. Some Israelites and Assyrians intermarried. I will note here that some of this intermarrying was willing and intentional, but sometimes Israelites were forced to marry Assyrians. After all, the Assyrians were the ones in change, and Israel had to submit to them. So the offspring of these intermarriages created a new race of people. They were the Samaritans.

So when the kingdoms of Israel and Judah were allowed back into their original lands, thanks to the Persian, Greek and Roman Empire, the reunion between the Jews and the Samaritans was not a happy one. The Jews found out that the Israelites had intermarried with a foreign people, a direct violation of God’s Law. The pious Jews would have nothing to do with a people who did not obey God’s Law. The Jews refused to consider the Samaritans as real Jews, even though the Samaritans believed they were. The Jews saw the Samaritans as “half-breeds” and they looked down upon them for it. Jews would not eat at the same table as Samaritans, nor would they even eat from the same dishes a Samaritan used. The Jews would not allow Samaritans to use their temple on Mount Zion or read from their scrolls. So in order for the Samaritans to continue their religion, they had to build their own temple on Mt. Gerizim, and they had to write their own Scriptures, in order to make sense of a temple on Mt. Gerizim. Yet when the Jews heard this, they criticized the Samaritans for not even being true Jews in religious worship. It would seem as if the Samaritans were stuck in a rut, with no way out. So the Jews and Samaritans became enemies, with racial hostility between them. The hostility got so bad, Jews traveling between Galilee and Judah would go around Samaria instead of going through. If they would have gone right through Samaria, the trip would only take 3-4 days, but they hated the Samaritans so much, they took a trip that lasted 7-10 days!

With that in mind, imagine the disciples’ reactions when Jesus tells them they have to go through Samaria. They might have thought He was out of His mind. I imagine that the racial hostility between the Jews and Samaritans got so bad, that at this point, it might have become unsafe for a Jew to travel through Samaria, like today it is unsafe for an Israeli to be in Palestine. Maybe Jesus stressed a need of urgency to get back to Galilee, so the disciples were willing to go along with the plan. Then imagine the reaction from the disciples when they get to Sychar, and Jesus tells the 12 disciples to go off without Him to find food. If some of the disciples were willing to walk in Samaria because they knew they had God the Son Incarnate literally walking beside them, they didn’t have that anymore. I bet as they walked through Sychar, they said to one another, “Alright, stay close together, watch each other’s back…” But as we begin our story, I have a feeling Jesus purposely sent the disciples away, for a bigger reason than to look for food because he was hungry. Jesus was about to encounter a Samaritan. He didn’t want his Jewish disciples giving neither Him nor the Samaritan hard time for having a conversation. After all, these were the disciples who rebuked children (see Matthew 19:13-15, Mark 10:13-16, Luke 18:15-17), so they probably would have no problem rebuking an adult.

One more time, let me summarize the setting. Jesus and His disciples are in the region of Samaria, a region hated by Jews. More specifically, Jesus and His disciples are in the town of Sychar. This town has some Old Testament history, as it is the land Jacob gave Joseph and Joseph’s sons. Some scholars believe that Sychar is the New Testament name for the Old Testament time of Shechem. Even more specifically, Jesus is sitting at Jacob’s well, which also has some Old Testament history (see Genesis 33:18-20). As for the time, it is the “6th hour,” which is believed to be around noon, about midday.

While Jesus is sitting at the well, waiting for his disciples to return with lunch, a Samaritan woman comes to the well to draw water. Jesus asks her for a drink. This might seem like a simple question to those reading this story in 21st century, but in the 1st century, this was a shocker. On top of racism between Jews and the Gentiles, sexism was very strong. Most women in the day lived in the shadow of men. They were not allowed to speak unless they were spoken to, and most of the time, it was culturally unacceptable for men and women to have conversation in public. So this person had two strikes against her: she was a Samaritan and she was a woman. Most Jewish rabbis would be so appalled by her, they would totally ignore her, as if she didn’t exist. If they were really thirsty, they would probably be more willing to dehydrate than have to ask her water. How shocked and surprised she must have been to see a Jewish man talking to her a Samaritan woman. She even tries to remind him of the social barrier between the two of them.

Christ’s move is genius, though. Jesus has got her attention, but not he needs to hook her curiosity. So Jesus says something along the lines of, “Oh, if you only knew who you were talking to, you’d be asking me for water, and not just any water, but living water.” Now the Samaritan woman’s curiosity is hooked, but it might hooked by a misconception. Just like Nicodemus, the Samaritan woman might have tried to understand Christ’s words in a literal, physical way. Back in Bible terms, wells, or cisterns, had tops that were open and exposed to nature. So the water wasn’t as clean as it is today. The dirt, bugs and other junk would be at the top of the water, and the cleanest of water would be at the bottom. People in the 1st century lacked the technology to get the clean water from the bottom without the dirty water on the top. The Samaritan woman might have thought Jesus was claiming He could do such a thing. The Samaritan woman pretty much replies, “Who do you think you are?” and then citing a famous patriarch, Jacob. She questions if Jesus is better than Jacob. While the Greek shows that she asked it in a way that expects a response of “no,” the irony of it all is Jesus is greater than their forefather Jacob.

Jesus tries to clarify what He meant. He explains that the water in this well will make people thirsty again, but then He offers Living Water, in which people will never thirst again and they will have eternal life. At this point, the Samaritan woman goes from a liberal understand of the physical laws to a supernatural understanding. She’s imagining a literal water she can drink so her body will never literally thirst again. It would be like she could drink one cup of this water and never have to worry about dehydration ever again. Now Jesus has her full, undivided attention. Of course she wants this water! If she had this water, she wouldn’t need to keep going back and forth to the well to get water so often. She’s all ears on how to get this water.

What Jesus does next is challenges the Samaritan women by asking her to bring her husband. I bet Jesus said it subtly and innocently, like, “Alright, bring your husband so I can tell him, too.” Now the Samaritan woman knows what kind of trouble she’s in. So she tries to also cunningly reply that she has no husband. Jesus replies, “You’re right, you don’t have a (1) husband. You have husbands. Five, to be precise, and maybe a possible 6th, because the man you are with now isn’t one of the 5…” Doesn’t this sound perfect for a Jerry Springer episode?

And now all of a sudden it makes sense why the Samaritan woman is at the well during the middle of the day. You were probably thinking, “Why would someone be doing chores like fetching water in the middle of the day when it’s the hottest out?” You’re right, something is wrong with that. But understanding this Samaritan woman’s situation, it makes sense. Indeed, most of the women would do all their outside chores, like fetching water, at sunrise and sunset, when the sun wasn’t shining down directly on them. But women around a well in Bible times are like office co-workers around the water cooler. Gossip is rampant, and this Samaritan woman was probably the talk of the town. You can’t sleep around with 5 different men and not get some nasty rumors circulated about you. It wouldn’t surprise me if the women of the town called this one Samaritan woman “slut,” “tramp,” “whore,” “ho,” or “prostitute.” The women probably pointed fingers at her, fingers of accusations, meant to put her down. Perhaps even if she went to the well with the rest of the women, the women would ignore, and they would pass her with chins up. So that’s probably half the reason this Samaritan woman came at noon: because the other women weren’t there. The other half of the reason is who IS there. At noon, it’s lunch break for the men who have been working hard out in the fields or with the flocks. They will gather around the well for a water break. It’s very probably that’s where this Samaritan woman got her 5 husbands. It’s very likely she goes there to pick up me. And may I even suggest a scary, odd thought: Maybe the Samaritan woman was trying to pick up Jesus.

Like any other person caught in sin, the Samaritan woman tries to change the subject. The Samaritan woman pretty much says, “Alright then, Mr. Smarty pants, if you are so smart, tell me which mountain is the right mountain to worship on: Mount Zion in Judea or Mount Gerazim in Samaria.” Remember the Jews would not allow Samaritans to worship at the temple on Mount Zion in Jerusalem. So the Samaritans had to result in building their temple. Rising hostilities between the 2 races led to religious arguments over the right place to worship. Between Jews and Samaritans, the right place of worship was a hot topic. Jesus gives a simple reply, saying it’s not where you worship that’s important, but rather how you worship. After all, it is made possible by Christ’s atoning death, in which we all become temples for the Holy Spirit.

The Samaritan woman isn’t fully satisfied with this answer. All she can reply is “Well, I know when the Messiah comes, He’ll tell us the right answer and straighten everything out.” To which Jesus raises his hand and says, “That would be me.” This is the first recorded time that Jesus declares Himself to be the Messiah. Jesus hadn’t told anyone this before, not any man, not any Jew, not His own family, not even His disciples. Up to this point, the disciples are just going on the assumption Jesus is the Messiah, and it’s true Jesus has done nothing to deny these claims, not stop these claims. The first person Jesus tells that He is the Messiah is a person with 3 strikes against: Samaritan, woman, adulterer.

Just as Jesus makes His confession, the disciples walk back to the well with lunch. They see Jesus say something to the Samaritan woman, and then see the Samaritan woman run into town all excited. The first thing on their mind is “What was that all about?” The second thing on their mind, being the stereotypical Jewish men they were was, “Why is Jesus talking to her?” But of course, no one is brave enough to call Jesus out on this, afraid of consequence, for good reason. They made the smart call by keeping quiet. Then Jesus and His disciples have a little conversation, something like this-

Disciples: “Jesus, eat something”
Jesus: “I have Living Food, so I never go hungry”
Disciples: “Wait, did someone else bring you food?”
Jesus: *sigh* “Not again… Didn’t I just get done with this?...”

Meanwhile, the Samaritan woman is going through the town of Sychar, urging everyone to go see Jesus. Her tagline: “He told me everything I ever did.” Well, who wouldn’t want to see the stranger that knows everyone’s life in and out? So many Samaritans come down to meet Jesus and listen to him. I wonder if this made the Jewish disciples uncomfortable. The Samaritan people are so impressed by Jesus, they urge Jesus to stay for a couple more days, and he does. During that time, because of the Samaritan woman’s testimony, many Samaritans come to believe in Jesus as the Messiah and the Savior of the world.

Before we move onto the direct application of the chapter, let’s quickly glance back at the overall application of the book with the book’s theme. How does John 4 portray Jesus as the Son of God, or God the Son? Well, the obvious answer is we see the omniscience (all-knowing) of God in Jesus because Jesus knows the Samaritan woman’s adulterous life without her telling him. The Samaritan woman can testify to that. The other proof is within Christ’s teachings. His words alone are bringing people to faith. But the strongest evidence that makes Jesus the Son of God is His love and compassion for a Samaritan woman, who was an outcast three times to Jewish men. Any other Jewish rabbi would have ignored her, but Jesus cared about her spiritual well-being and was out to save her from her sin and bring her into his family. This love can only be seen from God, who loves and cares for all His creation.

Alright, now onto the discipleship of evangelism. Clearly we see evangelism happen in John 4, as Jesus presents the gospel message to the Samaritan woman and she comes to salvation. Before I go further, let me add a disclaimer that there is no perfect “cookie-cutter” method to evangelism that will work perfectly for everyone every time. As one who has the gift of evangelism, I had heard many methods to evangelism, and I can see the pros and cons of each method. I believe that Christ’s evangelism to the Samaritan woman shows a method of evangelism, and it gives us good pointers. Did the evangelism of the perfect, sinless Jesus have its cons? In context, no. Jesus, being the all-knowing God, knew exactly what the Samaritan woman needed and was able use the method of evangelism that would best work with her. We, as humans, are finite and flawed beings who will not be able to figure out every little detail of a person’s life, so even if we used the exact same methods, we would still not have a perfect method to evangelism. Still, John 4 gives us a few good pointers for whatever method we use, so let’s look at those pointers.

1. Find a common ground to talk about to open conversation
A lot of times I think 20th and 21st Century American Christians are guilty of “ambush evangelism” in a few aspects of their evangelism. The definition of ambush, according to the Merriam-Website Collegiate Dictionary (11th Edition), is “a trap in which a concealed person lies in wait to attack by surprise.” Sometimes Christians do that to non-Christian. A non-Christian might be just walking down the road, mind his/her own business, when, all of a sudden, a Christian pops up out of nowhere and starts talking about Christianity. It can be positive and passive, like “Jesus loves you! He wants you to be part of His family in heaven!” It can be negative and aggressive, like “Repent of your wicked sins and be saved from the fires of hell!” Either way, it’s an interjection that catches one off guard and by surprise. Have you ever thought of what kind of message that is sending to whomever you are evangelizing to? They are getting the message all you want to do is talk about your faith, convert them to your faith, and whatever the results may be, when you are done, you are done with them. This can be a turn off right from the start because it shows little care about the person himself/herself.

Instead of starting by talking about your faith, open the conversation with some other topic you both have interest in and you can both openly converse on. I believe Jesus was doing this in John 4:7 when he simply asked for a drink. Most likely the Samaritan woman was at the well because she too was thirsty and needed water to drink. She was thirsty and needing a drink, and Jesus was thirsty and needing a drink. There’s your common ground. Common ground doesn’t have to be too complicated. If it’s at a restaurant, compare favorite dishes. For girls who like talking about clothing, comment on each other’s outfits. Speaking of clothing, look at their shirts. What people wear can tell you a lot about their personality. If you have a good knowledge about the subject they are advertising on their clothing, talk about it. Most people know what’s going in the world, so you can use current events to open conversation, like the news, the weather, or sports. On the same note, most people know about the media coming out of Hollywood, so movies, television and music can be a conversation starter, too. But I would really encourage you to evangelize to someone who shares a favorite hobby of yours, so you can talk about that. Why? All the other things I mentioned above would just be short and “shallow” conversations in order just to get conversation. But if it’s your favorite hobby, activity or interest, you probably know it front and back, left and right. If the person you are evangelizing to also shares that hobby, activity or interest as favorite, he/she will also be able to talk about as well as you can. Then you can go in-depth with the conversation. For the deeper you can do with the conversation start, the more it will display how much you genuinely care for the person, and that you are not just trying to add another one to the Christian number. Just remember, this initial common ground conversation cannot be about religion, beliefs or faith. For if you are a Christian, and he/she is a non-Christian, that is not common ground.

2. Make a smooth transition into talking about your faith
Once again, another way Christians do “ambush evangelism” is they might start a conversation other than Christianity, but then they will make a sharp turn into talking about the faith. One minute the non-Christian thinks he’s having a nice conversation with a Christian about something else than religion, so he let’s his shields down, then all a sudden the Christian says out of no where, “You need to believe in Jesus!” and the shields have to quickly spring up. Again, think about the message you are sending when you this. It does feel like you are entrapping the non-Christian. The only reason you had the nice conversation about whatever was just because you wanted to lure them in talking about faith. If the conversation before now seems fake, it, once again, will seem like you really don’t care for the person.

Notice the first thing Jesus says to the Samaritan woman in John 4:7 and then the second thing Jesus says to the Samaritan woman in John 4:10. Both lines are talking about water and about drinking water (although those words might not be used exactly). Jesus smoothly went from asking for a drink of water (talking about a physical need) to talking about drinking Living Water (a spiritual need). The smooth transition will make it seem less like an ambush to talk about faith, and more like a natural change of subject. There’s a couple ways to do this. The first method I call the 3 C’s: correlates, contradicts, or corrects. “Correlate” means it agrees with your Christian faith. “Contradict” means it doesn’t agree with your faith. “Corrects” means it agrees with your faith in some areas, but in other areas it does not, but after making the corrections with the areas it does not agree, it now fully agrees. Talk about if your faith correlates, contradicts or corrects with the subject you started talking about. A second transition you can use is comparing your opening subject to the simple, overall redemptive history God has written. If you are unaware of this simple, overall redemptive history, it simply states the history recorded in the Bible can be simplified into four stages: God created the world and man, man and the world fell into sin, Jesus redeemed man and the world, the Holy Spirit is re-creating man and the world. To shorten it to just one word each: Creation, Fall, Redemption, Re-Creation. See if any of those 4 stages can be seen in what you were talking about before. One stage, if not all 4, if you were talking about popular books, movies or TV shows. Compare what it says to what the Bible says. A third approach I would use is to take something from your earlier conversation and turn it into an analogy for something in Bible. Jesus used this in John 4, calling salvation “Living Water” because they were talking about drinking water. So do the same. Say, “You know, [previous subject] kind of reminds me of [something in the Bible]…” Those are 3 transitions I would believe would work. But may I add that transitions may not happen immediately. They may take time. After your first initial conversation about whatever may not lead into talking about your faith. You might need to have a couple common ground discussions before you can discuss your beliefs. Be patient, as God is patient, and it will all come in time.

3. Hook them and lure them in to an interest
Don’t make your evangelism a boring lecture about what you believe. Anyone listening to that will zone out and not care. Look how Jesus piqued her interest. He said he had a water in which the drinker will never thirst and have eternal life, and the Samaritan woman immediately wanted it. To put it in the words of the song “Shine” by the Newsboys, you got to “make them wonder what you got, make them wish that they were not on the outside looking bored.” For example, if you are talking about something materialistic, like the latest fashion or the more recent technological gadget, say, “It’s OK I don’t have one, I know have a greater treasure than that.” Show them that that you have something they don’t, and make them want it, or even better, need it.” Expose the need. If they are scared about what happens after they die, say to them you have comfort in your life after death. If they are afraid and worried about their future on earth, tell them you feel secure because you know God is watching over you. Many unsaved people out there feel like their life is incomplete, even if they have a life where they can do whatever they want and party hard. Many unsaved people have fallen for the lies of the world, that worldly ways will bring happiness. Demonstrate that even if you don’t have that life, you feel complete and joyful. If you can display joy without having a worldly life, it will blow their mind.

4. Expose the Problem and the Need
An answer is no good if there’s no question. A solution is no good if there is no problem. You need to expose the problem and the need. I already started talking about that in the last point. That “expose the need” was more along the lines of demonstrating you have something they don’t to draw them in. At this point, it could more of “expose the want” because, at this point, it’s just something the person might want. Now it’s time to turn the want into a need. This “expose the need” is showing them the problem in their lives. We Christians know the problem is sin.

Now there’s a right way and a wrong way to expose sin, and we have to be careful with how we expose sin. I’m going to reference back to John 3 for this. Remember how John 3 says that Jesus did not come into the world to condemn the world? Since we are following in the path of Jesus, we are to be like Him, and this means our evangelism is not one that condemns, which means to judge guilty of sin, with no way out. Make sure in no way it appears as if you exposing their sin so you lift yourself above them morally, or so you can be right and they can be wrong. It’s a turn off. Display you are exposing their sin out of genuine concern for their life and their well-being. Remember we said that the word “perish” in John 3:16 is along the lines of “ruining.” So when exposing sin, show how their sin(s) is(are) ruining their life.

One more note on exposing sin, don’t touch “hot-button” subjects, like homosexuality or abortion. Yes, they are sins, but even if you witnessing to a gay man or a lesbian woman, or you are evangelizing to an abortion “doctor” or a woman who got an abortion, don’t bring them up. These hot topics can become just as much political as religious, so you could be mistaken for preaching political propaganda instead of evangelizing the gospel. But I also think it is a strong witness. What a strong witness it is to avoid these, but bring up other sins in their life which they truly see as a problem. My favorite sin (that sounds so wrong) to talk about is lying. My generation has gotten so use to lying, they see it as natural. It will really open their mind to how destructive it can be. On that note, try to nab a sin that really drives home to the person. Jesus was able to do that with the Samaritan woman when he exposed her for her adultery. The more closer and more harder you hit home, the more the person knows he/see needs a solution.

5. Be prepared to answer questions and objections
When the Samaritan woman was faced with her sin, she quickly changed the subject. You’ll face that too when evangelizing. She decided to change the subject with a question, possibly to throw Jesus off. You’ll face the same. People will ask you questions. Some questions are real questions because they don’t understand something, and they want answers. Other questions are fake questions, meant to throw you off, show contradictions in your faith, or to object to Christianity. Know you will face these questions and be prepared. Study up, and always be prepared to be to give an answer and give a defense (1 Peter 3:15). And if you don’t know, it’s OK that you don’t know. If you don’t know, don’t try to pass it off as if you do know. Be honest and admit you don’t know. But make sure you make clear a difference between “don’t know” and “don’t care.” Even if you don’t know, do care. If you have the time, tell the person you will look it up and find an answer. Just make sure that you demonstrate that even if you don’t know, you still have faith in your beliefs, not knowing doesn’t mean your faith is wrong.

6. Point out the Way to the Solution
The Samaritan woman knew the solution was the Messiah, for she knew that Messiah would come and fix everything. What the Samaritan woman didn’t know was Jesus was the Messiah. When Jesus revealed He was the Christ, the Samaritan woman believed and came to salvation. Your evangelism is no good if there is no solution. Even if you start the conversation on a non-related topic, smoothly go into the topic of faith, interest them in the topic, expose their need and answer all questions, it’s no good if you cannot give a solution to their problem. Now’s the time to give the solution. The solution can be shared in five steps. First, say that Jesus is God, is man, and is perfect. Second, tell them that Jesus willingly died on the cross to pay the payment for our sins. Third, say that Jesus rose 3 days later, defeating sin, evil and death. Fourth, tell them that they can be saved of their sins if they repent of their sins, believe in Jesus and follow Him. Fifth, say that God promises all who repent and believe will be forgiven of their sins, welcomed into God’s family, and have a room in heaven one day. It’s as simple as that. Have your Bible ready if the person you are evangelizing to needs proof.

One more note I need to make on sharing the solution. Be careful of the words you pick! Being Christian for so long, you may have picked up “Christian-ese” a foreign language to non-Christians. I have a funny story that shows this. One night I was having dinner with a non-Christian at a diner. She was checking Facebook on her phone, and while still looking at her phone, she said to me, “Graham, you’re a Christian, right?” I confirmed. She went on, “My friend is a Christian who goes to Liberty University.” I’ll admit, I thought in my head, “Oh no…” The young lady continued, “My friend’s Facebook status says, ‘Volunteered at the Campus Crusade and saw 9 people give their lives to Christ. So excited!’ What does she mean when she says ‘gave their life to Christ’? Are the Liberty students performing human sacrifices? Is there a ritual suicide happening down there? I’m pretty sure both are illegal.” I did my best to suppress breaking out in laughter because her question was a sincere one. She didn’t know about being a living sacrifice, so the term “giving your life to Christ” was totally foreign. I had to explain it was pretty much converting to Christianity. As much as Christians like to avoid the term “converting” because it’s “too religious,” it’s the only term she understood, so I had to use it. Use terms they will understand.

7. If the person receives Christ, encourage her to spread the good news!
Look at the Samaritan woman’s reaction when she found out Jesus was the Messiah. How did she act? When she realized Jesus was the Messiah, she ran back into town and told everyone that they needed to meet this man, who she was pretty sure was the Messiah. The gospel message is a contagious one. We want to tell everyone the good news because it changed our lives. Someone who sincerely comes to faith in Christ will also want to spread the good news. Do not hinder them to do so. Let them do it. Don’t worry about if the new Christian will know how to start or what to say. If their salvation is genuine, they know the transformation that has happened in their life and they will communicate that transformation. On top of evangelism, encourage them to spiritually grow in other places, like Bible reading, praying, confessing and fellowshipping. If they don’t have a Bible, give them one. If they don’t have a church, invite them to your church or set them up with a local church.

I’ll write down the 7 bullet points together you can see them together

7 Tips for Evangelism Learned in John 4
1. Find a common ground to talk about to open conversation
2. Make a smooth transition to talking about your faith
3. Hook them and lure them into an interest
4. Expose the Problem and the Need
5. Be prepared to answer questions and objects
6. Point out the way to the solution
7. If the person receives Christ, encourage them to share the good news!

So go out and try it. Start with people you already have connections with, such as family, relatives and friends. Remember, the only thing you can bring into heaven with you is family, relatives and friends, so make sure they are coming with you. Then branch out into you local community, and then the surrounding communities. If every Christian could start out by just doing this, they could easily spread the gospel to the ends of the earth. So go out and show the world that Jesus is the ultimate Mr. Right, for men and women of all tongues, all tribes and all nations!